Scleich Horse Stable

We are huge fans of Scleich as you’ve probably gathered over the years. Their quality and attention to detail is next to none! So we were very excited when they kindly sent us their Large Horse Stable to test out! My 7yo loves horses and he was ecstatic!

My 8yo was eager to get building. There were a lot of pieces but the instructions were so good that he only required help for strength purposes. It took about 15 minutes for him to put together.

The horse stable has 7 animals, 2 horse boxes, 2 farmers, saddles, hay bales, buckets, a hoist, a hayloft and loads more accessories. There is also a feeding chute and transport rollers. It’s very authentic! It even comes with labels for the kids to personalise the horse boxes. It retails at £79.99 and is available at Smyths Toys.

The horse stable is a really great addition to our house. We love imaginative play here, my kids thrive on it! My boys set up a little farm scene and sensory tray with theirs!

There are lots of additional playsets and animal figures to collect to grow your very own farm world. The only limit is your imagination!

Free Airpure Scented Candle Advent Calendar

Yes we know it’s too soon! But is it really? We love Christmas at Swords and Snoodles! We cannot wait to start the decorating. And Wow Free Stuff love Christmas so much that they have decided to give away 1 of 50 AirPure Scented Candle Advent Calendars.

Just click enter now and fill in the form. There’s nothing to lose!

This competition ends on the 1st December 2019. By entering you agree to sign up to WOW FreeStuff Newsletter and must be over 18 and based in the UK.

What are you waiting for?! Let Christmas begin!

Driven To Distraction

Car journeys with kids are one of the most stressful times of any day. My two can’t even breath in the direction of each other without it causing serious chaos in the back seats! Siblings are just divine! The engine doesn’t even need to be switched on for the stress to begin. Making sure their buckled in correctly, they have a drink, the first aid kits packed and road side assistance is up to date are ALL done before the engine even begins! Sat navs are plugged in and placed in holders and your journey is calculated. Imagine if it had a stress-o-meter on it too? Mine would blow up!

Joking aside though, you see so many people still using their phones whilst driving despite the hefty fines and consequences!

Kwik Fit did a recent survey and found that 19% of the surveyed drivers admitted that they sometimes take calls while driving, 17% admit that they read texts off of their phone, and 12% send texts. All of these reasons (including using your sat nav) can result in a big penalty if the police pull you over and find that it was distracting you. Not only this, this time difference could be the deciding factor between a driver crashing or not. 

Have a go on the Kwik Fit game to test your distraction levels and responses!

It’s so important to avoid distractions, unfortunately kids don’t count, but phones do! Just don’t handle your phone whilst your engine is on. Your life literally does depend on it!

Fill the back seats with snacks, books, technology, anything too see you through the journey. My kids ate serious car snickers and it’s been a real saviour! Lunch boxes of food and water are the winning conditions here!

So on your next trip, plan ahead and stay off the phone!

Memory Making & Blah

Memory making. A major phrase used on social media, and in hashtags. Have you seen it? Of course you have!

If you’ve followed my site for any length of time you know I am all about the memory making, most likely OTT some of the time, but I am desperate to ensure my boys have a childhood full of happy memories, not full of money, full of memories; picnics, crazy desserts, snuggles, books read by flashlight, spontaneous parties, forts and mud pies.

But do you know what? Some days I don’t want to make memories! Am I alone in this?

The park? Ew, no, it’s cold, we have to pack four hundred snacks to avoid hanger, it’s muddy and I cba cleaning wellies after.

The cinema? Ugh, no, it costs the same amount as my weekly grocery shopping and everybody needs a billion pees!

A theme park? My worst nightmare, convincing my kids to get into a queue, and wait to go on a ride that they keep convincing themselves not to go on, the hook a ducks there that cost half my mortgage, and the high probability they will fall asleep on the journey home and not go to sleep ever that night.

The beach? Suncream, towels, changes of clothes, moaning, fighting, wasps, etc etc, hmm, no, not today.

A family board game? Oh Lord, no. The tears over losing, the arguing, the cheating. Shall I go on?

A picnic? Momma doesn’t feel like slaving away over a picnic ensuring everybody’s tastes are catered for, and the wasps that always plague us? Nope, can’t be dealing with those today either! And the dogs that always manage to run through our picnic and terrify the kids, nope can’t be dealing with you today either. The damp butt from the soaked-through picnic blanket, the four year old eating ALL of the cakes and traumatising his brother. A picnic? No, thanks.

All of the above we do, regularly, but sometimes, just sometimes I just don’t want to, and why? Because I simply cannot be bothered with all it involves! Am I a bad mum? Ha ha, please tell me sometimes you just cba to make life magical!

Or maybe finances stop you? Or illness? Maybe you’re a single parent finding funding days out hard? In a world where all the family deals seem to be marketed at households with two adults and two children, single parenthood can be that bit harder. PayPlan conducted a study to find out just how much extra it costs for a single parent to do family activities and trips. The results actually surprised me!

PayPlan put together this great infographic below:

Their results found that in every instance, being a single parent guarantees you’ll pay more.

If a single family were to do all these things over the course of a few years they would find themselves paying an extra £2,904.95 compared to a two-parent family. That is madness!

So here’s to the low maintenance activities we can throw our kids way that still score us brownie points; duvet nights with a movie and popcorn, chalks on the garden floor, water-painting the garden, drawing competitions etc etc blah blah blah.

Some days CBA is more than ok to be your motto, none of us are Mary Poppins, none of us! But it’s ok, you’re doing great just as you are, even with all of the cba’s! Sometimes those cba’s are memory making at it’s finest!